The unusual love story between a 23-year-old woman from China’s Hebei Province and an 80-year-old man she met at a nursing home sparked a heated debate in Chinese society.
23-year-old Xiaofang (pseudonym), met the love of her life while working as a volunteer at a retirement home in Hebei Province. 80-year-old Mr. Li (pseudonym) was a resident there and the two quickly became friends after realizing that they shared many interests and hobbies. But, as time went by, their friendship evolved into something more, as Xiaofang was attracted by Mr. Li’s maturity, stability, and wisdom, while he was moved by Xiaofang’s youthful vitality and kindness. Unfortunately, the young girl’s family did not approve of her romantic relationship with a man old enough to be her grandfather, but she decided to follow her heart and severed ties with her parents to be with Mr. Li.
Xiaofang and Li’s story sparked a heated online debate, with many social media users claiming that they completely understand the young woman’s disapproval of her relationship, and others commending her on her courage and devotion to Mr. Li.
According to the Chinese website Sohu, the unusual couple recently married in a simple but elegant ceremony. Although neither of their families was in attendance, the two exchanged vows, promising to remain by each other’s side in sickness and in health.
Although many accused Xiaofang of marrying Mr. Li for money, it was revealed that she was the breadwinner of the family. Because of his advanced age and poor health, Mr. Li can only rely on his modest pension, so it’s up to Xiaofang to handle most of the financial burdens. Still, she stoically welcomes the challenge, claiming that anything is possible with Li by her side.
Xiaofang constantly posts photos and videos of her and Mr Li on social media, which many interpreted as proof of true love. However, the controversial age gap has also sparked accusations against the 23-year-old woman that she is in this relationship purely for attention and views.
Chinese society appears divided on Xiaofang and Mr. Li’s relationship, with some describing it as a love story that transcends age, and others claiming that the age gap is too wide and their romance cannot be authentic. Despite all the noise around them, the two lovebirds carry on with their lives, declaring their love for each other and promising to stay together for as long as they live.